Thursday, November 9, 2017

Isn't he ADORABLE???

For first time Moms out there may share ako sainyo  It's not my first time to give birth. Mahdi (my son) is my second born.

Maraming misconceptions about sa pagbubuntis, and I experience both Baby Girl and Baby Boy. Baby girl kasi panganay ko and almost 2 years lang pagitan nila.

TAKE NOTE OF THE FOLLOWING:

1. PAG MATULIS ANG TIYAN
-both my pregnancy matulis tyan ko, akala ko nga first born ko Baby Boy ee.. so, di sya totoo na kapag patulis tiyan Lalaki. Nagkakataon lang siguro sa iba.

2. UMIITIM LEEG
-di porke nangitim leeg mo Boy na. I have a friend na nangitim leeg, girl yung baby. Well, there are some cases like mine, nung sa Baby Girl ko hindi naman sya nangitim, nung sa Baby Boy ko, umitim sya kaunti.

3. MAS MASAKIT IPANGANAK YUNG BABY BOY
-I agree, nung sa Girl ko, di naman sya ganun kasakit, though mas mahaba yung labor ko almost 2 days, sa Boy naman sobrang sakit naranasan ko, nauna yung blood, spot lang sa una tas tuloy tuloy na sobrang sakit. Once lang ako umiri sa Girl ko, full effort, sa Boy hays, nakatatlo akong iri, halos mapatid na ugat ko sa leeg hahaha

4.PAGSUSUKA
-mas pala suka ako sa Girl ko, 8th Month ko nagba-vomit pa ako. Sa Boy, maaga nawala. But the reason might be, dahil sanay nako sa paglilihi, kaya nako-control ko na.

NONETHELESS, hindi naman pare-pareho mga signs, but all of this are based on my experience pang teaser lang. Better to check your OB or magpa-ULTRASOUND na kayo for the gender... haha dali, congrats!!!

Wednesday, November 8, 2017

I am about to share my thoughts 'bout CAREER... This six (6) letter word seems easy to utter, but hell hard to define.

When can you consider yourself successful if you don't have career.

Ang hirap kapag pressured kana sa buhay. Yung tipong, the timeline you set is not attainable.

When i was in college, our College Dean Ms. Trampe discussed about career timeline. And that timeline should be set as early as when you have learned about it.

This how it goes. Set you life timeline, ask yourself when you will be successful. Let's say at the age of 40. The first 5 years dapat may ma-attain kana, either you own a house and lot or a car. Pero dun palang sa first 5 years of your life after graduation nauna na yung family life. E kasi yun yung kina-career mo eh haha. Uy hindi noh!, age of 25 is somewhat a marrying age (dun sa medyo nagmamadali) well, pano na yung bahay at lupa? tsk tsk

The next 3 years after your 5th year in career yung mas nakaka-pressure. kung nakapag pamilya kana agad, what can you attain after another 3 years? RAWRR!!! hehe eto na yung intense, you will see your friends posting about their GALA, their OOTD with bling blings, FOOD TRIPS, NEW CAR, NEW HOUSE, NEW JOWA and NEW CAREER either higher position or PROMOTION. Shocks! asan kana dun? hays. Sige think positive, atleast ikaw may anak na haha (on the back of your mind, CAREER nalang kulang sakin, may family na ako, e bakit yung jowa ba nila tatagal? mabibigyan ba sila ng anak? hahaha)

In fairness naman, I am nearby that 8th year in career, nasa 5th year palang naman ako, but time moves so fast. Baka isang araw di mo na makuha yung mga nai-set mo noon. It's never too late, everyday you can set your own goals. With the help of GOD, konting tyaga, diskarte, laban lang. Every people has their own timeline, We do not compete with others, we fight our own battle, so push!

The link below is about People who became successful after age of 40. Good read!

http://www.businessinsider.com/24-people-who-became-highly-successful-after-age-40-2015-6/#stan-lee-created-his-first-hit-comic-the-fantastic-four-just-shy-of-his-39th-birthday-in-1961-in-the-next-few-years-he-created-the-legendary-marvel-universe-whose-characters-such-as-spider-man-and-the-x-men-became-american-cultural-icons-1
I am surprised to see that I already created a blog last 2009, haha :D . 

Crazy babe! 

Isn't he ADORABLE??? For first time Moms out there may share ako sainyo  It's not my first time to give birth. Mahdi (my son) is...